ME

在工作上難免會有挫敗會有瓶頸會有過錯
我剛好三個都有
老是粗心～～跨不出那cycle，挫敗油然而生
不管怎麼小心，給出去的東西就是能被挑到錯
再怎麼厚的臉皮也不堪自己的譴責
現在會先審視一番是不是自己哪裡有做錯
通常～～得到的結論都是錯在己
在職場很多時候，不是自己的錯會是自己的錯
到後來～～靜下心來，卻能看到更多缺點
那是多到自己難以承受
可以再細心點～～可以沉著點
卻在那當下無所覺


對此，讓我發悶
心裡有種說不出的鬱悶疏散不了
那天在線上遇到Muslim
其實也滿久一段時間沒聊
想說他那麼忙，只是打個招呼
沒有要再繼續聊的意願
沒想到～～～他自己先問：Young lady.... how is your working?
真是哪壺不提哪壺
我：It's not so bad....
他：But there is a "bad"
我：Just sometimes I made some mistakes all the time.. although they were not so big.... even I tried to avoid it.  Sometimes you want to do it better and it turned out that it becomes worse in the end.
他：Listen to me... just hang out with your firends to have a dinner... go out to have a trip...relax yourself... it will be improved... coz you are too stressed.
我好像被打醒一樣：Yea, I think I am too stressed... and I don't realize that.  I think I know what I should do.  
他：Try it.... you will know.  It's always a good thing to find out where the problems are.  And working should be enjoyed... not let it enjoy you.  And remember... don't be shy to tell your problems to me, especially on working.  I think it's the part I can help you a lot.
他人真好


是啊～～就是因為越想把事情做好
無形中自己給的壓力遠比別人給的要來的大
短短五分鐘的對話
馬上知道自己問題在哪
每次和他聊天總覺得都能學到東西
雖然只有短短不到五分鐘，他就急著去開會
但總是獲益良多